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#Perspective, getting real about Mondays....

Missi Coggins Neskorik, my BFF, getting real about Mondays....

Facebook post of on 9/19/2022

I know everyone dreads Monday morning and we all complain like crazy that the weekend is over. As I read through some of the posts this morning all I could think of is my best friend that has Chemo every Monday morning for the near future and I’ve not heard her complain one time. Talk about sucky Mondays!  She’s fighting the good fight and not complaining but thankful that she’s here with us still. And God knows I’m glad she is. We’ve been through a lot together so by God I’m gonna be by her side and cheer her on through this fight. So have a great Monday and be grateful that you’re here and healthy. Love You M!!! 

Facebook post on 9/25/2022

Tomorrows Monday and every Sunday night I’m gonna remind you that it’s coming because I want you to embrace it. I want you to love it. I want you to remember that you’re here and you can love it. I want you to remember those that are sitting in a chair letting chemo run through their veins so that they can see just one more day. And when you start dreading it, smile and thank Monday for showing up again because for some Mondays are saving their lives so they CAN see that one more day. So cheers to Monday!  Start celebrating it and embracing it like I am. I love you M! Kick cancers butt like I know you can.

Facebook post on 10/10/2022

In case you were wondering I didn’t forget last Monday to post, but my bestie actually got approved to skip a treatment to take a trip to the beach but she’s back at it this week and so am I. Good Monday morning. We thank you God for another Monday to fight the fight, to heal Mary’s body. I’ve been amazed by her during this fight. She’s chosen to blog about this, which is HUGE for her. She’s such a private person and doesn’t like to ask for help. As a matter of fact she will do whatever she can so she doesn’t have to ask for help. Embrace Monday, kick butt today and when you do kick Monday’s butt, do it for Mary Deshler Daniels. And don’t ever forget to Thank God for another Monday. Love you M, to the moon and back!


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