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One year ago today!

August 2, 2022 was the day my life changed forever.   I heard the words too many people hear, "I'm sorry your biopsy came back positive for cancer.” I immediately joined a club no one ever thinks they will be a part of.  In that instant, and in the days and weeks that followed, I didn't know exactly what was going to happen. All of the doctors told me it was small, and we caught it early. 

And all of this brings me to today: my cancerversary. You may be wondering, what is that? Am I supposed to do something specific? The first thing you need to know is there are no rules. There are many possible cancer anniversaries, and this is just one of them (stay tuned I may celebrate just this one or all of them). Since I can't change anything of the past year, I am deciding to not be depressed today. I will not ignore the day that changed my life. I will continue to find the good in everything. I appreciate every single person in my life. I appreciate each day in a way I never could have imagined before. I now know what it means to be thankful for each day.

I will always have a little bit of cancer fear that I didn't have before this day last year.  Thankfully, since then, I have not been as scared as I was in that moment; plus, I kicked Breast Cancer’s Butt!!  So, cheers to me! 😊 Now, let’s go have a celebration dinner at Cinco Amigos! 



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  1. AnonymousAugust 2, 2023 at 3:20 PM

    Yes!!

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  2. AnonymousAugust 2, 2023 at 6:02 PM

    You deserve to celebrate like a rock star!!! I had planned to visit you in Jacksonville but had company....Hopefully next time!

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